October 26, 2011
Volume 13, Issue 22
Midwifery Today E-News
“Sexual Abuse”
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Jan’s Corner

Sexual Abuse

Sexual abuse is a horrendous offense that as many as one in three women and one in four to five men have suffered. These women are our pregnant and birthing mothers. These men are our birthing fathers. The effects of these experiences can color everything in the victim’s life. Pregnancy and birth are times when healing can take place, but abuse often recurs within the truly broken birth systems throughout the world. With a rising cesarean and induction rate, women are often left with a real sense of helplessness. When a woman has suffered abuse, the sense of having no control is often multiplied.

We absolutely need to do everything we can to stop this personal affront on children. While doing that we need to treat everyone with the balm of love and kindness that can help anyone’s life. We as midwives need to be aware of the help we can provide if it is called for. Some women will not want to deal with this issue. Some women will not know it happened to them until they experience a trigger such as the baby coming through. Others will be offended if they say something and you ignore their need. It is a balancing act that needs the utmost thought, love and intuition on your part.

Most midwives have a question on their prenatal forms now. Oftentimes the answer to the question “Have you been raped or sexually abused” will be no. Sometimes the truth comes out later when she trusts you. In the book, Survivor Moms: Women’s Stories of Birthing, Mothering and Healing after Sexual Abuse, the authors and women suggest not to dig into a victim’s past but not to ignore her if she puts out the seeds of revelation. I highly recommend this book, published by Motherbaby Press, to all birth practitioners. We owe it to the women and men we serve to understand sexual abuse as well as we can.

There is so much work we do in the prenatal course. We establish and maintain relationships, counsel and help women stay “normal” through nutrition. As I have said before, most midwives feel that 90% of complications can be avoided with good prenatal care. Now we add this consolation when working with mothers and fathers who may have suffered abuse, and the wonderful aspect of this is that the answer is the same for everyone, whether they have had this experience or not. It is my favorite scripture: “Love never fails” (1 Corinthians 13:8).

Jan Tritten, mother of Midwifery Today

Jan Tritten is the founder, editor-in-chief and mother of Midwifery Today magazine. She became a midwife in 1977 after the amazing homebirth of her second daughter. Her mission is to make loving midwifery care the norm for birthing women and their babies throughout the world. Meet Jan at our conferences around the world, or join her online, as she works to transform birth practices around the world.

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In My Opinion—Birth as a Vehicle for Healing

According to conservative estimates, one in four women has been sexually violated. Many practitioners believe that this number is much higher due to underreporting. Moreover, if we include a wide variety of incidences of boundary violations, broken promises and inappropriate behavior directed at a child or in any situation where a power differential exists between one person and another, then the numbers are much higher. As a survivor and a midwife I am interested in how gentle birth can provide an opportunity to fully reclaim one’s body and power.

Pregnancy and birth have the potential to be part of a woman’s healing. However, midwives have good reason not to attempt to directly address sexual trauma. A gentle birth is powerful, and a woman’s growing sense of power and her unique place in the world—discovered through birthing—can help her move away from feeling victimized. We all know that medicalized birth is filled with opportunities for harm. Common obstetric protocols that can re-traumatize include prolonged perineal pressure, finger forceps and episiotomy. Sexual violation is by definition non-consensual. Therefore, informed consent is an essential part of the healing offered by the midwifery model of care.

As midwives, most of us do not have the training to use traditional therapeutic strategies, and even if we do have training one of the most important skills when working with someone who has been violated is to maintain clear and strong boundaries. This is because sexual violation is an assault on boundaries.

Unless a woman brings her story to me, I do not ask about this aspect of her history. I believe that this is the first important boundary. Allowing a person who is healing from sexual violation as much control as possible over her self-definition and choice of action will help her move forward in her healing.

If a woman does disclose a history of violation, my role is to listen with sympathy and respond genuinely. I do not need to set an agenda to address this beyond what she requests. If I feel a pull to fix, save or repair her, I take a deep breath and remember the boundaries of our relationship. I remember that I am one small part of her journey toward healing. I have faith that it is her life and that her own faith and wisdom will be the agent of healing. By remembering this, and perhaps by communicating my faith, I clarify the boundary. I am her midwife, not her therapist.

Kate Pendergast
Excerpted from “In My Opinion: Birth as a Vehicle for Healing,” Midwifery Today, Issue 90
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Q: Like most midwives, I’m not a fan of doing newborn screens. Lately it seems I’ve had a rash of poor bleeders. Any hints or tricks for minimizing the need to poke twice?

— Cindy Lockhart

A: Make sure the heel is warm. I find this to be helpful!

— Lucy Tapia Franco

A: Make sure the baby is being cuddled and breastfed, a warm and relaxed baby doesn’t react to the pain the same and bleeds better; also once the prick is done, wait a few seconds for the blood to collect and do one gentle squeeze…, I have a 100% success rate with this. As soon as you take the baby away from mum/breast, they stress and the test becomes difficult for everyone involved.

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Midwifery Today has been very, very blessed in that Ina May has been a regular speaker at many of our conferences. She and her husband, Stephen Gaskin, who also received this award in 1980, will be teaching with us in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania. This is shaping up to be an excellent event. We hope you can join us for an amazing learning, sharing and caring experience. Many other great teachers will be joining Ina May and Stephen and Midwifery Today to bring a conference that will hopefully meet your needs and propel you with passion in serving motherbaby!

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Think about It

Pregnancy can be challenging for any woman, especially a woman expecting her first baby. Almost all women express fears about medical procedures, labor and birth and being a good mother. Survivor moms may have additional challenges—even those who have managed the effects of their abuse history well up until pregnancy.

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